Welcome to my collection of smut, advice, education, humor, and occasionally, diary or update.
NOTICE: My time on the site is limited, and most of my posts are queued. I occasionally do check-in, and answer messages
You can call me Livany or Liv. I'm in my mid-40s and have been involved with a kink for about 20 years. I am polyish, dyslexic, sarcastic, pansexual, human rights activists, switch. Pronouns: She/her They/them
My blog revolves around orgasm control, chastity, edging, denial, M/f, F/m, CNC, and F/f and humor. I do an advice column sometimes and I use to daily edging instructions for those who wish to explore the Pink Fog of Denial
When I'm around, I love chatting with my followers. I enjoy mentoring and giving advice to both folks. Feel free to message me with questions or just to say hello. I might not answer these right away. Obviously, idiots will be ignored.
Click here if you want to support me on Patreon or want private edging instructions. While I am not actively posting on my Patreon as of 9/1/2020, I will still occasionally be posting stories there, and if you want personalized edging instructions, we can discuss what that means.
I also have help files for blogging and how to use BDSMlr functions here.
Warning: I enjoy turning real interactions into stories or part of my advice post. For these posts, I am very respectful of people's privacy. Names and details are excluded.
For those idiots who don't understand this blog, or how to interact with people appropriately in DMs, this courtesy is not offered.
Don't delete other people's captions. And don't be racist.
(First post: 7 Nov 2019)